Frens

had lunch wif yen nee tdy. it's been a while since the pair of us sat down & tok. i noe there're times when it is more difficult to tell ppl u noe abt ur troubles den to tell someone u hardly noe.

trust mi, i've been there, on serveral occasions. of course there's the most recent episode going on in my life.


but most importantly, frens should be understanding and forgiving. keeping things to myself doesn't mean i dun trust my closest frens. it's juz difficult to articulate wat u're going thru in an objective & unemotional manner. when i'm ready to share, it'll b when i want ppl to rally ard mi & accompanied by lotsa tears & heartache. of course, tat's when i really get the load off my chest. thanks HQ & YT for being so understanding & supportive! the closer u r to a person, the harder it is to open ur mouth & share.

before den, when i dun share, i may still be working things out & trying to cope wif things myself. so gif mi space & time. i'll open out eventually. juz keep loving & supporting mi, k?

in a way, i'm glad i blog. i din realise tat frens haf been reading it faithfully & noes wat's going on. i now realise how lucky i am to haf so many ppl who's concerned abt mi. it's much easier to announce it tis way, i guess. and thanks for not asking mi for answers. Von & Pauline, u gave mi a "pleasant" surprise last wk by ur show of support. thanks!

i hope all my frens will always be happy & come to mi when they're ready. frens r for good times & even more for bad. frens do not judge. frens will support u & stand by u even if they can't help.

i make frens easily but it's been a 遗憾 tat i've lost contact wif so many close frens. there's sally from pri skool. kelly from jc & karen goh from work. mayb we're all too busy wif our lives to take the effort to stay in touch but whenever u r, my frens, i wish u happiness.

luckily, none of my 2C frens are missing in action. sometimes, they come & go but all of us are still pretty much in touch. 不要有异性没人性! haha!

of course, i haf also found some long lost frens from yahoo skoolfrens, ringo, plaxo & other tools. and tis blog wouldn't haf come abt without meeting up wif alan ( my 小学同学! )